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The Mentor News (October 22, 2004) This free newsletter is only sent to subscribers and to those persons and organizations that are listed on the Peer Resources' website. We strongly support a privacy policy that prohibits sending unwanted email. If you wish your address to be removed from this list, please let us know. We do not sell or forward your address to any other source. TOPICS
CREATE THE ORIGIN OF THE TERM "MENTOR" We have decided to hold a contest to focus on stories related to the origin of the word mentor or mentoring. The task is to create a story that is equally as plausible or credible as any of the four stories detailed below. However, it cannot be a variation of or use any of the elements of these existing stories. Imagination is probably key element for a "new" story, but it also must be based on some verifiable facts, historical events, or literature. The idea here is to have fun. If you're old enough to remember the TV-program "To Tell the Truth," where three contestants, all claiming to be the same person, appeared before a celebrity panel who had to guess which one of the contestants was the real person, then that is the spirit of this contest. A number of winners will be selected from all submitted stories and each person will receive a free copy of the latest print issue of Compass: A Magazine for Peer Assistance, Mentorship, and Coaching. Here are four stories presented as the true origin of the term mentor or mentoring: 1. In Homer's Odyssey, Mentor is a trusted friend to whom Ulysses leaves the care of his household when he departs for the Trojan War (a ten-year battle). The goddess Athena assumes the form of Mentor and cares for Ulysses son, Telemachus, until the war's conclusion. Some variations of this story state that she actually accompanies Telemachus on his journey to search for his father at the end of the war. Some variations describe Mentor as a man. 2. In 1698 Françcis Fénelon was appointed by King Louis XIV as a tutor to the king's grandson, the Duke of Burgundy. He provided instruction to his pupil through his didactic epic, Le Adventures de Télémaque (1699), the most popular book written in the 18th century. Fénelon uses the term "sage counselor" to describe his main character, the goddess Minerva who appears as Mentor. The book is clearly an imitation of Homer's The Odyssey, and the lessons expounded in the book by Mentor are both more educational than Homer's Mentor and directed towards guiding his pupil in how to become a peaceful and wise monarch. The political views that Fénelon put in the mouth of Mentor, however, offended the king's position on these same issues. As a result Fénelon was forced to leave the employment of the king for less challenging activities. 3. In ancient Africa, prior to the time of the Greek and Roman invasions, when a child was born, each village shared the responsibility for raising and educating the child into the customs and traditions associated with that village. While the child had contact with every member of the village, there was always one older child (not a family member) who would be assigned the responsibility to ask questions and listen carefully to the younger child. In Swahili (one of the oldest languages on our planet), this questioning person was called, "Habari gani menta" which, in English, means, the person who asks "What's happening?" 4. La Grotte de Niaux is a prehistoric cave located high in the Pyrenees in southern France. After walking through the silent and womb-like stillness, a visitor emerges into a large, domed space filled with ceiling paintings, estimated to have been created somewhere between 12,000 and 9,000 BC. While most of the paintings depict horses and bison, there is one theme that is repeated in many places. This painting shows a group of men taking children to what at that time was considered the edge or end of their physical world. The men exhort the children to be brave and expand their reach beyond the borders of the present world. Some believe that the origin of the term "mentor" comes from what has been loosely translated in these ancient depictions as "men" taking children on a "tour." Send your story along with your postal mailing information to story@mentor.ca. Peer Resources reserves the right to publish these stories in a future issue of this newsletter or on its website. "I never let the facts get in the way of a good story." ~ Grey Owl ~ ADD WORKPLACE COACHING to a MENTORING RELATIONSHIP One of the most frequently asked questions sent to the Ask a Mentor service of Peer Resources is: "What is the difference between mentoring and coaching?" All too often, however, the similarities between the two areas are minimized in an attempt to describe differences. In reality, an observer watching an effective mentor or skilled coach would likely have a difficult time telling them apart. Peer Resources has created a one-day workshop where persons who are acting as mentors can learn to increase their coaching ability in their interactions with their partners. Participants in this workshop learn a step-by-step, simple model which coaches, educates and empowers all at the same time. Attention to how to use the model in a variety of workplace settings is included. Demonstrations of the model along with opportunities to directly experience the model as both mentor/coach and partner are essential components of this course. The next course is scheduled in Victoria, British Columbia, December 1, 2004. Space is limited. Registration is available online. The fee for the course is $749.00 and includes all materials plus lunch. MENTORING CONFERENCES AND SEMINARS 18th Annual International Mentoring Association Conference ARTICLES WANTED FOR MENTORING AND CAREER DEVELOPMENT JOURNAL For some time, mentoring has been recognized as an important developmental relationship, benefiting the careers of mentors and partners alike. More recently, emphasis has been placed on understanding the nature of the relationship itself and the context within which such relationships are Submissions may be oriented toward either the internal (dyadic) or external (organizational or broader) context of mentoring relationships. Papers that focus on mentoring as one feature of a larger context of influences on career development are especially welcomed. Papers on the impact of globalization on mentoring or mentoring across international boundaries are welcomed. Empirical submissions, using either quantitative or qualitative research methods, as well as conceptual manuscripts, are encouraged. Manuscripts must not exceeding 5-6k words and must be emailed to S. Gayle Baugh (Tel. 850-474-2206). Submissions must be presented in American Psychological Association (APA) format or the journal's style as shown at www.emeraldinsight.com/journals/cdi/notes.htm. Author details must be provided on a separate document to facilitate the blind review process. USE THE LATEST MENTORING LITERATURE TO GUIDE PROFESSIONAL PRACTICE Peer Resources continually scans the professional and popular literature for articles, books, videos and other useful reference materials. They provide a brief synopsis of the work as well as citation details and summaries in a searchable format on their site at www.peer.ca/SearchB.html. Each month the Peer Bulletin includes some of the many citations added every week. Garringer, M. (July, 2004). Putting the "men" back in mentoring: A look at one of the mentoring movement's toughest challenges. Bulletin of the National Mentoring Center 2, 2, 1+. Adams, J.U. (August 2, 2004). How to be a good mentor. The Scientist. (Retrieved from www.the-scientist.com/yr2004/aug/index_040802.html.) SJB Research Consulting, Inc. (April, 2004). E-mentoring for women of color in engineering and science: Final report to the engineering information foundation. New York, NY: Author.
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